Texas Twosome: Ceremony, Part 1

I want to start out by giving our officiant, our friend Guy, a huge shout-out. He worked very hard to write our beautiful ceremony and it was perfect.

Now I'm just going to let the ceremony words do the talking. It's going to be quite a bit of text so if you don't want to read it, just scroll through the pictures.

Welcome, family and friends. We have come here today to celebrate the wedding of Jennifer and Randall.

On behalf of Randy and Jenn, thank you for joining us. They are delighted that you have come to share in their joy on this special day.

As family and friends you form a community of support that surrounds Randy and Jenn. Always stand beside them, never between them. Offer them your love and your support, not your judgment. Encourage them when encouragement is needed, and listen to them when they ask for advice. With these actions, you honor the marriage they have come to begin today.

Do you offer your love and support, and bless the family created by this union? Please answer by saying : WE DO

[Guests: WE DO]

Thank you, you may be seated.

Marriage is a bond to be entered into only after considerable thought and reflection. Today, Jenn and Randy demonstrate their devotion to each other by dedicating themselves to a life together, and they show their respect for each other by setting forth to honor the vows they have created. Today their lives, which began on separate paths, will be joined as one.

Randy and Jenn have each asked someone special to speak about love and marriage.

First we will hear from Jenn’s uncle, Chuck. Chuck will you please step forward?

Song of the Open Road

Walt Whitman

I do not offer the old smooth prizes,

But offer rough new prizes,

These are the days that must happen to you:

You shall not heap up what is called riches,

You shall scatter with lavish hand all that you earn or achieve.

However sweet the laid-up stores,

However convenient the dwellings,

You shall not remain there.

However sheltered the port,

And however calm the waters,

You shall not anchor there.

However welcome the hospitality that welcomes you

You are permitted to receive it but a little while

Afoot and lighthearted, take to the open road,

Healthy, free, the world before you,

The long brown path before you,

leading wherever you choose.

Say only to one another:

Camerado, I give you my hand!

I give you my love, more precious than money,

I give you myself before preaching or law:

Will you give me yourself?

Will you come travel with me?

Shall we stick by each other as long as we live?

Thank you Chuck. Next we will hear from Randy’s friend Jamie. Jamie, will you please come forward?

I would like to start by saying thank you to Randy and Jenn for the honor of being here and thank you to all of you for hearing this reading on their most precious day. And to quote a wise man some of you might know , I invite you all to ”Stay a while and listen.”

Everyday is precious; but some more than others. Some days are of paramount importance . This is one of those days.

Connections.

If life is about anything at all, it is about connections. Daily connections; yearly connections; Lifelong connections. We meet countless people in our lives. People we love, people we hate , and of course people we are indifferent to. I personally believe that only once are we able to make “the” connection. The most important, most intense and most wonderful connection with that one person we most need to. The person that some call “the love of a lifetime”. That word is often used to lightly and used in relationships that don’t warrant it. This is not one of those times.

Knowing my friend , Randy, the way I do , I can say that I believe he and Jenn have found that one important, lasting and needed connection. True love. Not cliché, not romantic infatuation. Real honest to goodness love. The kind of love you can wrap yourself in like a blanket on a cold morning. The kind you can see in each others eyes every day . The kind you can hear in each others voice. The kind that penetrates even the darkest of days. One that will outlast and outshine all others. The kind you never want to lose.

On this great day, we should all celebrate that Randy and Jenn have found each other in the endless sea of passing souls. They can be themselves, and love the other more for it. And that is special. Magical. Always be true to yourselves and each other.

Thank you Jamie for you reading.

Randy and Jenn will now read the vows that express their feelings of love and commitment to each other.

Randy?

I love you

Not only for what you are,

But for what I am

When I am with you.

I love you,

Not only for what

You have made of yourself,

But for what

You are making of me.

I love you

For the part of me

That you bring out;

I love you

For putting your hand

Into my heaped-up heart

And passing over

All the foolish, weak things

That you can't help

Dimly seeing there,

And for drawing out

Into the light

All the beautiful belongings

That no one else had looked

Quite far enough to find

I love you because you

Are helping me to make

Of the lumber of my life

Not a tavern

But a temple.

Out of the works

Of my every day

Not a reproach

But a song.

I love you

Because you have done

More than any creed

Could have done

To make me good.

And more than any fate

Could have done

To make me happy.

You have done it

Without a touch,

Without a word,

Without a sign.

You have done it

By being yourself.

(I said the same thing so I won't repeat it in text here. And we cheated as you can see by reading our vows. We didn't want to stress ourselves with memorizing vows on our special day.)

For thousands of years, lovers have exchanged rings as a token of their vows. Let these rings be a sign that love has a past, a present, and a future.

Randy, take Jenn’s ring and place it on her finger and repeat after me:

I give you this ring as a symbol of my love,

my faith in our strength together,

and my covenant to learn and grow with you.

Jenn, take Randy’s ring and place it on his finger and repeat after me:

I give you this ring as a symbol of my love,

my faith in our strength together,

and my covenant to learn and grow with you.

Stay tuned for Part 2 of our ceremony!

*All photos taken by Nathan Russell

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